October 13th: The 60th Birthday

Today is my father’s 60th birthday. It is a milestone year and while most would be celebrating reaching this level of life, my father is not because he is no longer physically present. I lost my father in the early morning hours of a Monday in March 2015 due to a tragic accident in which…

Valentine’s Day & Singlehood

The day is here, Valentine’s Day, a day where our social media timelines are full of everyone showcasing their love for the special someone(s) in their lives. Personally, I have seen everything from flowers, jewelry, pictures with thought-out love messages to the flipside where there were people posting videos hating on this very day, mostly…

A Girl Like Her…

Alexa, play Jazmine Sullivan ft. H.E.R. “Girl Like Me” I have been vibing to Jazmine’s album, Heaux Tales, since it dropped about three weeks ago, first playing the whole album all the way through a few times to replaying my chosen favorites countlessly; “Bodies,” “On It,” “Price Tags,” “Pick Up Yo Feelings”, and “Lost One”,…

Forgiveness…

Ok, so what had happened was, is that I wrote that blog the other week, “Indefinite Healing,” which basically was me shedding myself to myself, as well as it was an effort to help others who may be in a healing process of their own; however, anytime I do anything like that, there is always…

Indefinite Healing

HEALING. Ugh… Look, one thing I can tell you for sure about healing is that it is messy, and it has no timeframe to it, it is definitely an indefinite process. But that’s ok. Over the last few weeks, I’ve continuously found myself engulfed in conversations with others discussing my realization that I am still…